Respect for the wife and Family Peace

 Respect for the wife

In ancient times, a man divorced his wife for some reason. People came to him and asked why he divorced him. The man said that my wife is still in Idda.  If I describe the defect, from which mouth will I refer to it?   

 People left, Idda ended, he did not return, people came to him again and asked the reason for the divorce, so he said that if I describe his faults now, it will be like distorting his personality.  The marriage will not take place, people then left, this woman got married to someone else, people came again and asked the reason for the divorce, so the person said that now it is someone else's honor and the requirement of marriage is that I am a foreigner and a stranger.  keep my mouth shut about women                Wasif Sahib says when you leave someone, don't disgrace him

  It's a small thing but a very important lesson for the learners

Intoxicated by love, men and women cannot accept each other's role correctly. Love is the name of wanting without any kind of reaction from the other side. I read that love is not running, it is calm.  There is no river.
There is a lake.
There is no fire, there is light.  Tell the truth, what happens?
The truth is that it is not something to be told, it is something to be won. It is not something to be understood. It is something to be known. In the excitement of youth, a man likes a woman.
And even looking after a woman is a reward for a man.

FAMILY PEACE
In 5 point

The way to end conflict and quarrels in your family, which can be done by every person, can make the home life peaceful..!

1) Stop being curious. Getting caught up in someone makes a person mentally ill. Rather, according to a psychologist, the cause of most mental illnesses is curiosity.  If given the opportunity, showing superiority and humiliating him, it causes disharmony in the family

2) Stop mentioning family members with bad names and titles, avoid backbiting because these things reach others and cause mischief, and anyway this behavior makes a person bad-mannered and bad-mannered is the end of all diseases.

3) Stop being jealous. It is a fire that burns a person. Do not wish for the decline and loss of whatever blessings you have with others, but pray for them and pray for blessings for yourself.

4) Stop comments at home on topics that cause fights and hatreds.

5) Give gifts to those with whom you are displeased or displeased according to your capacity, whether it is a gift of something or a gift of actions, that is, helping them on any occasion and removing their worries.  Do visit if possible.

Note
: These attributes are written for each member of the family,
Therefore, no one should think that the addressee is a relative from the opposite side.
This thinking is not correct, but whoever takes the initiative, Allah Ta'ala will give him a great reward and he will have a good name.
Adopting these attributes will solve all problems, God willing.

Family Sequance

 Family Sequance

Family

Never tell your wife in a loud voice that you have done something wrong.The wife should not tell the husband that you have done this wrong, but if you praise each other, then love will happen.  Compliments make the heart happy and sarcasm tears the heart apart.
Husband and wife express love to each other.  Fill the tongue with sweetness for each other.  Look at each other with eyes of love.  Fill your eyes with love and the association with the Prophet will come alive in your homes.
Religion will come alive in your homes.  With folded hands, I say don't make fun of each other. 
Do not insult each other.
A Peer Sahib went to eat at his disciple's house. When he liked the food, Peer Sahib said, call your Begum.  Begum came.  They said, "Daughter! I ate the food from your hand. It was very delicious. I have called you to thank you."  So this Begum started crying loudly.  Asked what happened, the Begum said, "It's been 30 years with your husband but never once in his life has he praised my food."
My children, I am telling you, bring the company of the Prophet (ﷺ) to your homes and praise each other.  Encourage each other.  Let me tell you an incident.

My Prophet (ﷺ) felt hungry, went to Umm Salmi's house and asked, "Umm Salmi! Is there anything to eat? There was nothing to eat in the house, so Umm Salmi said with great regret, "O Messenger of Allah, go home.  I don't have anything to eat, only vinegar is lying around"

Vinegar is such a thing that one drop on the tongue will burn the tongue.  If you take half a teaspoon, it will tear your throat. 
Vinegar is good food.
But Umm Salmi said with great humility and sorrow, "O Messenger of God, there is only this vinegar in the house." If it had been someone else, she would have said that vinegar is also something to eat. Don't you know that vinegar is not for eating?  But look at the morals of my Prophet ﷺ, they said.  "Wah wah um salmi sarka jesa to sali hi koi nain" Just see how he got his begum out of shame and inferiority complex.
My Prophet ﷺ said: "The best Muslim is the one who treats his wife well" and he said to his wife: "If there was sajdah in my law, I would have asked the wife to sajdah to her husband."
My children, learn the manners of the Prophet.  Learn to tolerate each other.  Use the correct language.  The husband sweetened the words for his wife. The wife sweetened the words for her husband.  Bitterness will come, but let it pass.  Hold your tongue for a while, Allah will fill your hearts with love.  If you want to bring your homes to the example of the Prophet, then bring the love of my Prophet into your homes.  Prophetic morals will settle the house
"Alhamdulillah, the manifestations of apostasy from the time of the Prophet to this day are not comparable in the entire Islamic history, but in the context of the developments of the present time and the unrestrained use of modern resources, the planned efforts of Western imperialism and the new global education system.  Enemy powers have succeeded in causing a large number of our youths to mentally and intellectually suffer from unconscious apostasy.  It is seen that commitment to religion is more visible in this generation than in the previous generation, but self-confidence in Hanif religion, faith in Islam as the religion of nature and in its ability to face all the challenges of life is decreasing day by day.Is.

[See some examples]:

1- A gentleman was told that every day in the morning prayer meeting in the school where your child is studying, he calls Jesus the son of God.  Thus, what difference does it make to say these phrases temporarily with the tongue, where do we have the concept of a son for Allah Ta'ala from our heart?  In other words, he was saying that the phrase ``Nawz-Billah Shirkiya'' can be uttered out of necessity and as a joke.

2- During college studies, a gentleman met a non-Muslim woman, she was not willing to convert to Islam, in that condition he married her, when the child was born, the mother started taking her to the temple according to Hinduism, here  Until he grew up and remained a non-Muslim, his friends asked this young man about this, and the answer was that there is no force in Islam, so why should I force my son to convert to Islam?

3- A Muslim daughter got married to a non-Muslim. Her father, who was also very religious, was asked what happened.  So they said that my daughter is educated , she makes her own decisions, it is enough for me that she is happy with her future husband, in other words they were saying that I have no regrets about her leaving Islam.  "This prosperity of the world is dear to me over the destruction of the Hereafter".

(Missionary Education, Historical Background, Dangerous Ambitions pp. 54, 55)

Desire Sex

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Desire Sex

What is meant by wet pubic area?
As all married men or promiscuous men know, after the first shot of sex with a woman, it takes a long time for a man to mature again.
That is, if the boy in the sex couple is fourteen years old, he is ready again after eight or ten minutes after discharge, and even if the fourteen-year-old girl is discharged, she remains ready, she remains the hottest of all.  Wants more sex
And if a man is 25 or older, it takes an hour for a man to get ready for the second shot, and if a woman is 25, it only takes five minutes to get ready again after the first shot.  It seems
Why the sex cells of a woman are ninety percent more than that of a man, but the period of the fastest sex cell of a woman is less.  are If a woman has sex with someone else even though she is married, then a wise man knows about the woman's vajrayana.
When a woman's husband wants to have sex with his wife, he looks at her vagina, then her vagina looks wet and loose, from which the man knows that my wife has had sex with someone before me.
Why, if a woman gets ready again in five minutes, then her vagina regains its dryness after twenty-four hours.  It is not known what my wife has done
Why is it that after having sex with a woman, her vaginal dryness returns after 24 hours and the wet pendulous vulva shows that the woman has had sex a few hours ago.
This post is posted for your concerns.
Love is necessary for sexual activity.

The complete and perfect satisfaction of the sexual act is possible only when this act is done with the person whom one loves.  As if love is necessary for sexual activity.  Perfect sexual gratification for a human being, in which apart from the body, the soul also gets complete comfort and satisfaction is possible only when this process is performed with that particular human being.
Now let's mention the advice that is often given on such posts.  A man can perform foreplay with full enjoyment and intensity with the man he loves.  Otherwise, how can a person kiss someone who does not feel such passion.  How long and how intensively will he do it?
Exactly such a person can take care of his health and well-being for the one with whom heart feelings are connected.
Can arrange decoration for the same

It is with which there is love so that the beloved looks the most beautiful in special moments.
One can share one's sexual desires, likes and dislikes and preferences with the person who is closest to one's heart.
Romance before sex.
Taking care of your lover's comfort during sex.  Instead of doing any painful or unwanted act of your partner just for your own pleasure and pleasure, consider his happiness and choice.  Talk to her romantically during sex.  Even after sex, it is possible to express the same intensity and valor with the same person with whom a strong love relationship is established.
While in our society, it is most difficult to have sex with the same person whom you love.
People love someone but not looking for sexual gratification or sexual hunger.  Marries without love, often girls are married by their parents' will.  Apart from love, boys get married at the will of their parents or any other social requirement.
A relationship is formed with the opposite sex only for sexual gratification without love.  The call goes to the girls.  Often some boys and girls have sex with their same-sex friends.  Or they start enjoying themselves.
All these methods suppress sexual desire and appetite but are unable to provide complete relief.  Because love does not interfere in it, only need is fulfilled.
However, this incomplete sexual satisfaction gives rise to physical, mental and psychological problems and disorders.  There, sexual crimes are also increasing day by day in the society.
People need to understand that most problems.  It is not because of lack of complete knowledge or knowledge of diet, health or sexual process, but because of lack of power and intensity of love, the seeds of sexual process are born.  Instead of trying t3o fulfill this need in any way, try to fulfill it with your love.  Apart from this, unnecessary strangulation in the society.  Outdated traditions and social chains also need to be broken.  Many individual and collective problems that are due to these unnecessary restrictions and societal traditions and closures can also be easily solved.

Married Life

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Married Life :

(Strong relationship)

The relationship between husband and wife is such that if people walk with each other with their eyes closed, they can live happily throughout their lives.  But if the wall of doubt gets in the way, then it becomes difficult to take even a step forward.  This relationship is one of trust and confidence.  If one loses trust in the other, then nothing remains.  Every moment passes in agony.  The trust and confidence of the husband makes the woman strong, otherwise she would be broken and disintegrated, which has a profound effect on the other responsibilities of the house.

In fact, thousands of people are employed abroad or in remote areas within their own country in connection with their business life.  For many months and even years they do not see each other, yet there is a trust and confidence, through which they both endure such a distance and bear every pain with joy.  Trust is something that cannot be broken by staying away from it.
The relationship between husband and wife is based on trust.  Belief and trust make this relationship so strong that even if one wants to break it, it cannot be broken.  But when a third person comes between the husband and wife, the roots of this relationship start to weaken.  The walls of trust begin to crumble and then it takes a heavy toll.  This loss is not only for the concerned person, but the whole house is affected by it.
Thus, trust and belief turns into doubt.

Why and how does this doubt happen?
One of the main reasons for this is a change in attitude, unwarranted criticism.  If a man is attracted to any other woman, his behavior will change immediately.  He will gradually lose his attention from the home side.  Will always be ready to fight and die with his wife.  Till tomorrow the virtues of the wife will be seen as vices.  Disgust will be evident on his face.  While the poor wife considers the husband's lack of work as an excess of work and continues to serve him.  But this situation does not last long, when the matter goes beyond the limit, the wife's ears stand up and when the husband is questioned, the husband creates a storm in the house that the wife does not want him.  I doubt it.
Although it is a fact that if a woman is taking care of the house with all honesty, raising children, sharing in your sorrows, then she will not tolerate this abuse at all.  May be In such a case, there may be some loss.  There are hundreds of examples of this in our society.
It is necessary that the Shiraz of the house should be scattered before this.  A house that was built on the basis of love, preserved every single thing of it for a lifetime.  Promises were made to spend the rest of their lives together, will this relationship be broken so easily?
It is very important to work with common sense and patience in married life.
If the wife is suffering from any misunderstanding, it is the duty of the husband to clear her doubt, instead of both of them quarreling with each other and things get worse.
If there is no thief in the heart of the husband, he will never confuse the matter and will try to remove the suspicion.  But if there is any crookedness in him, he will never speak straight.  Lies will be told.  A woman should also check carefully whether what she is saying is true or not before accusing her husband.  But for these things, patience and tolerance are very necessary.  Otherwise, the matter may get worse.

Life with your beloved

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Spend your life with your beloved

A man always has a wife in whose hands he puts all his dignity, all honor, all honor and goes out to earn for her only on the trust that she will keep that dignity and honor in her fist.
For these girls.  Those who think that only if they find the beloved, they don't need anything else.

You will spend your life with your beloved.
When there is no bread in the stomach.
Don't wear a suit to go anywhere.
When you can't find your favorite food for years.
When the beloved is careless.
When he takes you and leaves you at the mercy of the in-laws and forgets.
When children are suffering from pain and there is no money for medicine.
When the beloved is sacrificing himself for more women because of his amorous mood.
When a few days after the marriage, the romance ends and the real life begins.
When the house is not good for living.

All love disappears.
Write down one of my words.
Beloved can change.  But a good person does not change.
Choose a good, honorable, responsible and earning respectable person for marriage.  Not beloved.
When the husband is full and respectful, love becomes mandatory.
You don't know who is the best.  Allah knows.  Therefore, bow your head to the Lord's decisions.  Not in front of the heart.
Otherwise
This heart will leave no stone unturned to make you cry and humiliate you....!
It is better to look around and learn from the same girls and boys than to experiment on yourself...
God bless everyone...
Amen...

How to have intercourse

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How to have           intercourse

During pregnancy and answer all the questions in your mind.

Sex during pregnancy is good for both mom and baby, it helps you sleep better, lowers your blood pressure and even makes you happier!

Questions that come to mind during pregnancy and their answers
1) Is sex safe during pregnancy?

Answer: If your doctor allows you to have sex during pregnancy, then this is the first sign of a successful pregnancy. By the way, having sex during pregnancy is very beneficial for both the mother and the baby, but if you have had a miscarriage or a miscarriage in the past.  If there is any problem, your doctor can stop you from having sex. This restriction can be for some time or for the whole pregnancy..
2) Can sex during pregnancy harm the baby?
If your doctor has given you permission to have sex, your baby is perfectly safe.  The genetic material from the womb that keeps the baby warm and safe, and this material also keeps you and your partner safe
If the child's head is hit or hurt by sex, then this position is completely wrong because the child is not so far that the husband's organ hits the child

4) What are the best sex positions during pregnancy?

  ••» By taking the crotch:
This is a great option because it keeps the weight off your back and stomach - if you're experiencing strain on your lower back, prop a pillow between your knees and have your partner support you.  Ask to have sex from behind

••» Coming up of a woman:
This position is also very good, there is no pressure on the stomach in this position and its other advantage is that the woman can easily penetrate as much as she wants.

••» Male coming up:
When the heart desires intercourse, in this position the man should slowly come on top of the woman and not put his weight on the woman completely and should not remain on top of the woman for a long time after four months of pregnancy.

5) Will I experience changes in libido during pregnancy?
5) Observation of changes in sex during pregnancy?

Libido changes in pregnancy depend on the woman. Some women also experience the desire to have sex during pregnancy. In some women, the desire for sex also increases with the increase in estrogen levels. The positive benefit of this is that in the fridge and breasts.  The blood flow increases which greatly helps in achieving sensual pleasure and pleasure
Low sex drive during pregnancy is normal. If you're experiencing symptoms like vomiting, nausea, or shortness of breath during pregnancy, it's normal to have low sex drive if you're not in the mood for sex.  Apart from sexual activity, kissing, cuddling and talking with your partner are very beneficial

The reality of oral sex

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The reality of oral sex

One such sexual method was introduced in the porn industry.  Which directly causes cancer, gloria and other destructive diseases.  This method is called oral sex.  You must have noticed one thing often.  Watch any category video of the porn movie.  In the start of the film, oral sex is definitely demonstrated.  It seems as if this is also a part of a regular sexual process.

According to scientific medical reports, a substance is excreted in our body with semen.  Which often causes damage to DNA.  If it goes into the stomach through the mouth or if there is any residue left in the teeth.  So it produces a substance called p16 protein in the cells of the mouth.
which causes oral cancer and blood problems and these are diseases that cannot be cured except in Jewish laboratories.

All medicines for these diseases are sold by Israeli companies at very expensive prices.  The faces of the patients affected by these diseases change and death comes with a sigh.  Therefore, before fulfilling the desire of oral sex lovers, think about your future.
Oral sex is actually a source of income for secret Jewish agencies.
This is how people fall prey to them and cheat them out of millions of dollars.
Along with oral sex, videos of skate-eating and post-drinking sex are also coming to the public.  Which is proof of the conspiracy of the Jewish agencies.
Actors working in these porn videos, immediately after shooting, are given special sprays in their mouths that kill all the germs of dirt in the mouth.  Our common scholars believe that porn videos are only used as a weapon against Muslims.
Not really.  The target of the Jewish agencies is the religions of the whole world.  Because all religions reject their extremist ideas in any case!

Today, though, the majority of Muslims are also victims of it.  But still we are walking equally for our religion, culture and race.  While the western society is so broken that artificial birth is being considered..!

In 2013, it was admitted in the American Parliament that by 2050 the manpower of Islam will dominate the whole of Europe.  Therefore, Islam should be surrounded and restricted from all sides.  Drops of po-leo and instill hatred in people's hearts for Islam and make them part of their free society to reduce child births.
This is the reason why Islamic extremism is being shown all over the world today.  Atheists are scratching Islam on social media.  Big liberals are being brought into politics.  Muslims are being massacred in occupied areas.  Because the enemy has already known that his weapon has destroyed his own nation, but as you go, make sure to strike the last blow on the Muslim!