Shariah method of meeting the wife.

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There are some problems related to husband and wife which are important to know but they don't know why we don't read the religious book and I feel ashamed to ask the scholar but it is strange that we are ashamed to ask the problem but the same honor  Time dies when the groom tells the story of the whole night to his friends and the bride to her friends. Well, save this message and send this message as a gift to your friends and loved ones who are getting married.

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Hazrat Imam Ghazali (RA) says that sexual intercourse is one of the pleasures of Paradise.

Hazrat Junaid al-Baghdadi says that a person needs sexual intercourse like Gaza (food) because it is the reason for the purity of the wife.
(Ahyaya Uloom Volume 2 p.: 29)(احیاء العلوم  جلد 2 ص: 29 )

  It comes in the Holy Hadith that just as there is sin in forbidden intercourse, in the same way there are virtues in lawful intercou6rse
(Muslim Volume 1 _ page: 324) ( مسلم جلد 1_ ص : 324)

It was narrated from Umm al-Momineen Syed Aisha Siddiqa that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said that when a man holds the hand of his wife, one good deed is written in his book of deeds, and when he puts his hand around her neck, ten good deeds are written.  Good deeds are recorded and when he associates with him, he becomes better than the world and mafiha.  goes and goes up a level
  (Ghanit al-Talbeen: p: 113)
(غنیت الطالبین : ص : 113)
   A person said to Hazrat Abdullah Ibn Masood, may God be pleased with him: I think that the girl I have married will not like me, so you say that love comes from God and hatred comes from Satan.  On behalf of him, do this that when you go to him for the first time, perform ablution and pray two rakats of Nafl prayer in a way that you are the imam and he follows you, then God willing, you will find him loving and faithful. 
(Ghanit al-Talibeen, p.: 115)
( غنیت الطالبین ، ص : 115 )
After the prayer, the husband should hold a little hair from the forehead of his bride with tenderness and love and recite this dua.
(Allahm ini asilk min khairha wa khair ma jabaltha aliyyah wa awuz buk min sharha wishar ma jabaltha aliyyah) So with the blessing of prayer and this dua, love and harmony will be established between husband and wife, God willing
(Abu Dawud, p.: 293)
( ابو داؤد ، ص : 293)

   It is abominable to talk at the time of sexual intercourse, it is a risk of the child becoming a baby, likewise one should avoid looking at the private part of the woman at that time as there is a possibility of the child becoming blind.Otherwise, there is a fear of the child becoming immoral
(Fatawa Rizwiyyah Volume 9: Page: 46)
( فتاویٰ رضویہ جلد 9 : ص : 46 )

        It is Sunnah to recite Bismillah Sharif at the time of intercourse (and this dua should be recited: Allahum junbanaan al-Shaitan wa junb-ul-Shaitan anna. O our Allah, protect us from the devil and the devil from everyone) but remember to read it before opening the seventy and it is the best.  When you enter the room, recite Bismillah Sharif and enter with your right foot. If you keep doing this, Satan will stay outside the room.
(Tafseer Naimi Volume 2, page: 410)
(تفسیر نعیمی جلد 2 ، ص : 410 )

Hazrat says that a woman has 100 more sins than a man, but modesty has been imposed on her, so if a man gets ready early, he should not separate from his wife immediately, but stay for a while and then separate.  (Fatawa Rizwiyyah, Vol. 9, p. 183)
( فتاویٰ رضویہ ، جلد 9 ، ص 183 )

  Imagining someone else at the time of sexual intercourse is also zina and it is a serious sin and there is no fixed time for sexual intercourse, but just be careful not to miss the prayer, because the wife is also required to perform prayer, fasting, I'tikaf, menstruation, nifas and companionship during such a time of prayer.  It is forbidden to perform the prayer after the time has passed.
( فتاویٰ رضویہ  جلد 1 ص 584)
  It is permissible for a man to touch his wife's breast with his mouth, but in such a way that the milk does not go down the throat, it is forbidden. 
( در مختار ، جلد 2 ، ص ، 58 )

It is permissible for a man and a woman to look at each other's line and touch, but the ruling is that one should not look at the special place because it causes forgetfulness and the eyesight also weakens
(Rad al-Mukhtar, vol. 5, p.256 )
( رد المختار جلد 5 ، ص ، 256 )

  After the break, men and women should clean their lines with separate cloths, because using the same cloth for both is a cause of hatred and separation
(Kimiya Saadat, p. 265)
( کیمیاے سعادت ، ص ، 265 )

  Even after Ihtlam or wants to have intercourse a second time, it is better to wash the line and perform ablution, otherwise the unborn child is at risk of disease 
(Qubtal Qul, Vol. 2, p. 489)
( قبتل قبل ، جلد 2 ، ص ، 489 )

Having sex with an older woman or while standing up makes the body very weak, and having sex on a full stomach is also very harmful.
  (Bastan al-Arifin, p. 139)
( بستان العارفین ، ص ، 139 )

  Order the woman to lie down on the right crotch after sexual intercourse, so that if the sperm is detected, it will be a boy, God willing.

Drinking water or taking a bath immediately after sexual intercourse is harmful to health, but washing the line is beneficial
   (Bastanal Arfin, p. 138)
( مجربات یوسف ، ص 42 )  

  Doctors say that intercourse more than twice a week is fatal. It comes about the lion that he has intercourse with his female only once in a year and after that it becomes so weak that it lasts for the next 48 hours.  Until he is not even able to walk, and after 48 hours when he gets up, he still staggers.
( مجربات یوسف ، ص ، 41 )

  It is not permissible to have sexual intercourse with a woman while she is menstruating, even if it is not the first night of marriage, and if it is permissible to do so, then you will become a disbeliever, and it is also strictly forbidden to have sexual intercourse with her in the position behind her.  ,
vol. 2, p. 78)
( بہار شریعت ، جلد 2 ، ص ، 78 )


  But in the state of menstruation, she does not become untouchable, as it is customary in many places that they do not even allow her to cook. 
Vol. 3, p. 13)
( فتاویٰ مصطفویہ  جلد  3 ، ص ، 13)
       
    The worst men and women on the Day of Judgment will be those who tell their secrets to their friends.
  (Muslim, Vol. 1 p. 464)
( مسلم ، جلد 1 ص ، 464 ) 

   The period of separation from a woman is 4 months, it is forbidden to stay away longer than that
( تاریخ خلفاء ، ص ، 97 )

  It is makruh to have sex in front of a child who is sensible.
( الملفوظ ، حصہ ، ص ، 14. )

  Remember that bleeding on the first night is not very important. Those who are ignorant think like this, they are less educated, because in today's age, the blood that comes from the pubis of art by the rupture of the membrane is like riding a bicycle in childhood.  It can even explode from other things, so use common sense.