Sunday, January 29, 2023

The couple and their honeymoon



 The couple and their honeymoon













First of all, let me clarify that there is no concept of "honeymoon" in the religion of Islam, it is purely western culture, Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam never went out with any wife immediately after marriage, yes, of course Rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam where  Whenever he went on a trip, he would take his wife with him, whether it was a jihad trip or a commercial trip, the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) used to take his wives on trips, that is, he used to arrange the outings and entertainment of his wives well.
It became clear that "honeymoon" has nothing to do with Islam, but if a partner wants to go anywhere with his wife immediately after marriage, then he can go there, there is no restriction of Shariat, he can go with pleasure.  Not only that, God Almighty is also very happy with the person who takes steps for the entertainment of his wife, the only thing is that this "honeymoon" should not be considered a part of marriage, it should not be considered as a duty.  It is not necessary to think that the marriage has taken place, then all that is left to do is to go on the honeymoon. Coming here, things will get worse because then it will become a regular ritual.

Even today, in some houses, there are quarrels between husband and wife that you did not take me on the honeymoon, or you were supposed to go to such and such a place, or you took me to such and such a place, or there was a long tour but you came early, etc., so this honey  Moon should not be considered mandatory otherwise it will cause serious harm to future generations.
*Another important thing is that honeymoon is apparently two words, but if you understand the purpose behind these two words, then the husband and wife will be ashamed of each other.  It will never come that you are going to hang out, but different types of movies will be played which are very inappropriate, so I don't think it would be right to say "Honeymoon" in front of anyone,*

You should use simple words like going out with wife, it will be good to speak and listen, it is not good to use the word "honeymoon".
And I always suggest that husband and wife should prefer to do Umrah at the first opportunity instead of going around after marriage.  In the beginning, may the Tawaf of the Kaaba be blessed, the cover of the Kaaba should come in the hand, the presence of the Holy Prophet (PBUH) may be attended, and thanks to these blessings, the special blessings and mercies of the Lord Almighty will continue to be showered on the newly married couple for the rest of their lives, and there is no more beautiful honeymoon than that.  may be
May God grant us the opportunity to do so,
Amen

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